“You have one of each. A million dollar family. Your family is complete.”
“You’ve worked so hard and lost so much weight. I guess you’re not planning to have anymore children, eh?!? How could you want to ruin what you’ve worked so hard for?!?”
“Cadence was such an easy baby in comparison to Cameron. I bet that’s swung your mind from having another. Wouldn’t want to go through that again, huh?!?”
“So-and-so was asking me the other day when you’re planning to have your next. I responded ‘never’… ‘there’s no way I’d babysit then’…”
Ok… Enough already! Enough!
Seriously if one more person asks me or comments on when or if I may have another baby… I think I may just go bat shit crazy on their ass. The incessant comments are finally eating at me. I was able to drown them out for quite some time, but now it’s just getting down right annoying.
It’s almost like I can’t escape them.
You first get hounded after marriage and I never once thought I’d get hounded after having children… Wrong! I get pestered more now in comparison to back then.
People just need to mind their own damn business. What my husband and I chose to do within our relationship and in the bedroom is our own personal business. If we choose to try for another baby, it’s our decision. No one else can try to sway that on us. Seriously… what does it have to do with anyone else? Absolutely nothing!
I’ll be completely honest and say that there was a point in our relationship where we wanted a large family. One with 3 or 4 children. Lately though… my mind has been wavering and I’m just not sure what I want anymore. My husband is all for another baby… I think he’s more excited for the rampant, steamy sessions that come with making said baby. Can you blame him?!
Any who… I digress…
The constant nattering and blabbering in my ear like a broken record doesn’t help my flip flopping mind. It really just doesn’t help, nor does it matter.
Can you relate? Do you have family members and friends in your life who’ve driven you crazy with pregnancy banter?