Some people have a hard time admitting their child is colicky. I mean, I get it, you don’t want to admit it
to yourself, but admitting it to others is even tougher.
When my son was around 4 weeks, a friend of mine (who has two kids and a third was on the way) had
come over to visit and I was explaining to her that my son wouldn’t stop crying and he was so difficult to
soothe and then she threw it out there those dreaded words “perhaps he is colicky” and my immediate
reaction was “nah, that’s not it” (what do I know I have only had a kid for four weeks). Shortly after
then, I went to see the pediatrician and he put him on Prevacid … that didn’t work; I went on a lactose
free diet .. that didn’t work so out it came again “perhaps he is colicky”! It was official, my little guy was
colicky and there wasn’t much I could do about it.
All I can remember is pure and utter exhaustion. I really didn’t go out all that much because I was afraid
people would look at me and wonder why I couldn’t stop my kid from screaming and I thought they
would think I was a bad parent (yes my own insecurities I know, we all have them). I started to go to
mommy groups and found that while their kids slept, mine screamed; while the moms ate, I watched
and just became frustrated. Eventually I reached out to people (some I didn’t even really know) to give
me tips and here I am to try to share them with those who are in the same boat as I was
The Exercise Ball: This is an absolute MUST!!! Go out to your nearest fitness store, but one of the large
fitness balls, go to a gas station, fill it up and just spend your days and nights bouncing. Hell, it’s even
good for your core This ball saved us, anytime we sat and bounced he calmed down pretty quickly
Running Water: Turn on a tap and just enjoy the sound of silence – not really sure why but whenever my
husband would put our son near the tap he would quiet down, problem was, how long can you stand by
a tap for. I am also told that loud laundry machines or vacuum’s also help.
Baby Carrier: Strap on your baby carrier and walk around your house, do laundry, dishes or whatever
else you have to do and let your little one fall asleep on you. At that point, I would take a seat on my
couch (which I pretty much didn’t sit on for months) and close my eyes
Go for a Walk: Clearly they love movement, so pack up the baby put on your runners and your best
lulu’s and go for a walk and plan to be out for a while. My son would sleep for hours on a walk! For
those who wonder about winter babies, my son was a winter baby, I bundled him up and walked. They
love the cold!
Go for a Car Ride: If you have a car, put the baby in the car seat and just drive. Pick a near destination
you haven’t been to and weave through the streets (don’t go to slow though as people might think you
are creepy). Hint: Summerhill is a beautiful area to check out
I know all these or some of these may not work for everyone, but when you are at the point of
desperation you will try anything! If anyone else has little tricks that worked for them, feel free to post
below
Just remember mom’s and dad’s – there is a light at the end of the tunnel
T.
xo

4 Responses to Colic 411!
We had the same problem with our son when he was a baby. Endless sleepless nights followed…it was rough times for sure! I found the carrier to be a life saver too. I actually shed all my Daddy Baby Weight (it’s a thing) by walking him around everywhere.
Thanks for sharing your tips!
Awesome post Terri!
We have that same issue BUT most tuff doesnt work, he will be fine for like the first 10 to 15 minutes… I can tell hes soo tired but hes fighting it. My first public experience with my colicky c\son was in the grocery store an I was shopping and I had to stop, and leave the store… i was a little embarrassed but I was sad bc I could get him to calm down… I want to find a support groups for parents bc i am a first time mom but cant find any in my area so I have been relying on what ppl post..its been a little difficult and will be even more when i have to return to work tomorrow and i dont want to, have tons of anxiety and feel awful to have to leave him.. is this all normal?
:/
Hi Heather,
I totally sympathize with you! First, I commend you for goin to the grocery store, it doesnt matter that your son had a meltdown, leaving the house with a colicky baby is a big step. Your feeling about going back to work is totally normal, but just know he will be fine and it will actually be good for your headspace to get a break. I am happy to be your support group!!! I have gone through the same thing and conquered it (though my son is still difficult).